Who are you?

Ideally self expression is based on what and who you think you are. But how many of us actually have a clear picture of ourselves. Seriously, do you know what you look like? What complexion are you, what size are you, how tall are you? Have you ever walked by a reflective surface and were surprised that it was you staring back at you?
Do you identify with the latest trends and styles of clothing? Are your clothes how you express yourself? Is it your hair? Self expression is the beginning of self confidence. When you know, at least to a substantial degree, who you are you can confidently display to the world the aspects of you. The challenge lies in using things in the media, magazines, etc. as idea generators instead of the basis for your expression.
Know what works for you and what doesn't, but learn this at your own pace based on your INDIVIDUAL taste. Being comfortable in your own skin, with your body type, your hair texture is hard enough. Why wear something that makes you uncomfortable or a hair style that's unflattering because it's the "style".
Let's all take a note from Rhianna at this year's Video Music Awards. The girl performed in a cropped leather jacket only, with black jeans and heels. Sure it looked hip and stylish, yet she was so preoccupied with keeping the jacket closed that her performance suffered.
Self love, self confidence, and self expression all go hand in hand. Finding out who you are and showing the world your discovery is a very private and personal journey. One that I, myself, have embarked on. In doing so I proceed with caution, but hey, that's just me.